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Real-Life Decision Making -- Solution

You talk with him about the toys.

Talking about the toys might help the child, but not as much as playing with them. Letting the child play with the toys and choose which toys enter his personal space is the better technique.

Charlie will start to recover his sense of control over his personal space by selecting the toys that enter that space.

This action is valuable by "allowing him the feeling that he really could say, 'I don't want you in my space,'" says play therapist Joanne Ginter.

Talking about the toys and his personal space, on the other hand, is too abstract for children. They learn best by feeling and doing. "They might learn it cognitively, but they don't have any changes in the feeling zone," explains Ginter.


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